Writers in the internet age have a tremendous depository of resources available at the click of a mouse. Sometimes it can be a whole lot of information, and if you’re anything like me, you tend to get buzzed with reading too many sites.

Nonetheless, I find I’ve learned a lot by visiting writing-related websites, and thought maybe I could share a few of the sites I’ve found useful.

The list is completely subjective and random, and reflects my own interest in the genres I like. Some are related to book reviews, some provide writing advice, others help with writing markets, some are by renowned editors and agents. This is by no means a complete list of all the sites I visit, they’re just off the top of my head.

Here’s the list, and feel free to point us towards other sites writers could find useful in the comments to this post. Happy browsing!

Guardian Books

Nathan Bransford

Stroppy Author

Alan Rinzler

Help! I Need a Publisher!

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Have you lost your joy of writing? Do you question the insanity of pursuing a career in publishing? Do you obsess over certain milestones—contest wins, judges’ comments, rejection letters? Do you wish you could give it up and just walk away?

A few months back this happened to me. I had lost my joy. My stomach was in knots over self doubt. I cried at night at the thought of walking way and equally over the thought of walking the “unpubbed” road for years to come.

How could something I love so much cause me so much pain?

But this was the crux of the problem. I knew I couldn’t give up the dream of writing for a living. I’ve wanted to give it up, Lord knows I tried, but once I’d scraped up enough courage to start this journey I knew there was no going back. Writing is as much a part of me as my right arm.

As profound as this realization was, that still didn’t mean I was happy about it. I was still joyless. But I realized something. This moment, this day, were all parts of my life, and I had the responsibility to cherish it. I needed to find a way to be okay with the possibility of never being published, of winning or bombing a contest. I needed to find my center, a truth that wouldn’t be dependent on outside factors.

The good news is that I found my joy again. How? There is no cure-all, but a process. I re-read my earlier writings and patted myself on my back on how far I’d come. I gave thanks for a great critique group and took advantage of my monthly RWA meetings.

I put writing back into perspective.

I strived for balance, and believe that I’ve found some. I need to write, but also need my family and an outside life. I’d never be able to get the years back of my children’s life if I was spending all my time obsessing about being published or not. I want to look back over my career with no regrets, and thus accepting what I can do and what I can’t.

I try not to compare my journey with anyone else. The paths to success are numerous. There is no one right way.

Positive affirmations. Positive sayings have saved my life from spiraling into a deep black hole. If you tell yourself you are a success, then eventually you have to believe it. And the first person who has to believe that you have talent, is you.

Yes, I’ve found the joy again, and that happiness has spilled over into my daily life. My heart speeds up at the end of a well-written scene. I carry a smile around when I figure out the “missing” piece to my WIP. But I am ever on alert to the veering off the well-balanced, joyful road.

What about you? Have you lost your joy? And if so how did you get it back?

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I've wanted to be a writer ever since I read my first book by Judy Blume, Super Fudge. Since then I've been writing bad poetry and even worse prose. I finally got serious when about two years ago, after a nervous breakdown in my kitchen, I cried to my husband "I'm not happy!" "Well, get happy," he said.Simple enough, and so I started writing and have completed my first novel. I'm now in the process of polishing and sending "my baby" out into the big bad world. :)

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Sarah is writer looking for an agent. She is currently working on novel # 4, editing novels 2 and 3, and querying novel # 1. For more insight to her work, visit: http://legendoftheprotectors.wordpress.com/ or http://legendoftheprotectors.blogspot.com/

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