It’s kinda like getting ready for the first day of school. You know it’s coming. It could be a week or a month away. Or maybe even a day. But you are super nervous.
Do you have the right outfit?(Aka:Is your query letter up to par?)
Do your shoes match and will anyone have the same pair? (Does the story match the tone of your letter and OMG is it original enough. The last thing we want to do is be Cliche’)
Will the hot popular kids like you? (Can we say Nathan Bransford? And every other agent on your FAVORITES list!)
What if nobody likes you? (Le Sigh…rejections…)
The list goes on and on. But really they are no different. It’s nerve wrecking. It’s terrifying. And more often than not the negative things DO happen.
So what is a writer to do when they are so nervous they are thinking about doing an entire extra round of edits just to postpone the scary hairy rejection scene?
STOP!
You’ve gotten this far have you not?
Have you not worked and toiled and edited and pulled your hair out and cried and laughed and written till your fingers bled and cramped and made everyone you know and their mother read and reread your manuscript and and and and and!?
Take the chance already!!!
If you are worried about agents rejecting, pick a hand full of your not so super duperlicious favorites and query them first. See what happens.
Do they love it? Do they hate it?
Do they all request a full? If so, start querying the big dogs. If not rework your query. Enlist some help! Purchase Elana Johnson’s From the Query to he Call. Do everything you can to make your letter shine.
THEN query a second handful of agents.
Repeat the process until it cannot be repeated. If it gets to the point where you are getting no where then maybe it’s time to rethink your strategy. But don’t give up. And don’t hold back out of fear.
Get your book out there already! And good luck!!!
(Says the pot calling the kettle black! Wait…I kinda want to be the kettle. You can be the pot today!)

Marybeth is an aspiring novelist currently working on her second novel. For more information visit her website www.marybethsmith.com. She also has a blog Desperately Searching for my Inner Mary Poppins where you can keep up on her moments as mother, wife and writer..
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